Dare to... Create Space
In this episode of 'Dare to Dad,' hosts Dr. Lester Clowes and Dr. Bobo Blankson explore the concept of parent leadership from the perspective of ‘Dad.’ They discuss the importance of dads intentionally creating space for their children's growth, rather than leaving their development to the influence of social media, peers, and other sources away from the home. Les and Bobo share personal stories and professional insights, emphasizing the 'show one, do one, teach one' approach and its application in day-to-day parenting. They introduce the idea that effective leadership involves scaffolded learning processes, such as transitioning from guiding to allowing independence, and highlight the significant role dads play as leaders in their children's lives. The discussion also touches upon creating opportunities for children to practice self-leadership, while also discussing the criticality for dads to be vulnerable and open to dual-accountability, especially when it comes to role modeling. Additionally, the hosts engage in lighter conversations around personal experiences, cultural food dishes, and sports - providing a well-rounded and relatable dialogue for listeners.
00:00 Space Will Always Be Created
00:55 Introducing 'Dare to Dad' Podcast
01:35 Exploring Leadership Through Personal Stories
05:09 Leadership: The Space We Create
07:28 Real-Life Parenting Strategies and Leadership Lessons
15:33 Tools for Effective Leadership
19:42 Vulnerability & Individuality
20:09 The Importance of Discipline and Emotional Expression
21:15 Modeling Vulnerability and Earning Privileges
23:21 Creating Space for Growth: Kids, Self-Care, and Leadership
24:29 Name That Dad
26:46 Leadership and Team Building in the NFL
30:35 Unscripted: Unique Meals and Lakers Talk